I've described the action mail command that allows you to send e-mails from EEM applets in several posts. However, the posts were always focused on a particular task and the various action mail options were mentioned in passing. The Send e-mail from EEM applet article contains a step-by-step recommendations on portable and scalable usage of the action mail command.
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